and then I said, "yes, of course. that makes perfect sense", when, in reality, it made nothing of the sort. nothing of the kind. anything but sense, really. in fact, it made so little sense that I had to believe it was the truth. only I couldn't see; a fault in me, and in my eyes. and so I said, "yes, of course, that makes perfect sense". to make sure that none of the nodding heads and certain looks around me would discern that there was something wrong with me and my eyes.
you see, don't you? you see that when I said, "yes, of course. that makes perfect sense", I meant it? that, of course, it had to make sense? something so completely accepted by those nodding heads and certain looks must. it simply could not really be the chaos I was perceiving. and if I said, "yes, of course. that makes perfect sense" enough, then it would make sense. it had to. because, there was only so long that I could pretend to understand it and the increasing number of things connected to it. only so long before the inconsistencies in my words and actions and reactions would be noticed.
I was able to pass by saying, "yes, of course. that makes perfect sense", for many years. and, yes, I believed it. I believed that it made sense, just not to me. this was my failure, my sin. I was, perhaps, damaged. or broken. or, most likely, I just wasn't trying hard enough. but I nodded my head and cast my own certain looks. and repeated my mantra of, "yes, of course. that makes perfect sense". because, it did. it does. just not to me.
no, I no longer say that. there's no point, is there? not when the words won't be believed. if it made sense to me I would never have done as I did, I wouldn't have the scars. and as we now know, if it didn't make sense at the beginning, then it never will.
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